The Lotus and the Rose: Reiki I Healing for Women

The Lotus and the Rose: Reiki I Healing for Women

Instructor: Brandi Pennell

Site: The Country Goddess

**For Women Only**

Date: April 18th from 11 to 7 p.m.

Required texts: “Essential Reiki: A Complete Guide to an Ancient Healing Art” by Diane Stein

“Essential Psychic Healing: A Complete Guide to Healing Yourself, Healing Others and Healing the Earth,” by Diane Stein

Reiki is an Eastern healing philosophy, combined with basic universal spiritual principles, which ultimately serves to heal and empower its practitioners. It is a practice which honors the holistic needs of the body and spirit and integrates healing principles to ultimately enrich the entire being.

In this course, the student will learn the basics of Reiki, as it is generally taught and practiced by Reiki Masters, and they will have a foundational understanding necessary for self administering its healing principles. We will touch on the history of Reiki as well as its different Eastern and Western branches, principles that govern the practice of Reiki, and both the basic and more complex philosophies concerning the body’s energy and how it impacts the healing process.

At the end of the course, the student’s understanding of Reiki principles and practices should be comprehensive and they will be ready to regularly implement the lessons. Through daily or weekly practice and regular meditation, students will prepare themselves to share their new knowledge and they will be ready to help heal others.

It is the goal of this class to provide a safe and empowering environment for women. It is for women who are in search of women’s spirituality and for rediscovering their own healing power. Each woman will be presented certification for Reiki I.

Refreshments, healing and good times will also be provided.

For more information, please contact me at: mamanbrighid@gmail.com

Radio Show Tonight

Every Sunday, at 8:00 p.m. CST (9:00 p.m. EST) I host a show called the SJLightworker hour. I interview a different person for the Soul’s Journey Lightworkers site. It is really fun, and I am getting to know the people who make Soul’s Journey such a positive and uplifting place to work. The other fun thing about this show is that it is a call-in show. If you want to have someone read for you, just call-in during the show. Last week we had the amazing Rhoda J on the show and this week we have the lovely Denise Iwaniw, an ordained Coptic minister and the author of three books and five meditation CD’s.  She is currently working on the follow-up to her last book, “Embracing the Mystic Within” with her 4th book “A Year of Angels”.  She is a worldwide lecturer and teaching and works to help preserve Native American Traditions through her foundation,Gathering Thunder Foundation.  I am looking forward to interviewing her as she is one of the most popular and busiest people on the Lightworker site.

While I am a tarot reader, the site has psychics, energy workers, and a vast array of talented people who use various modalities to help you along your path.

The show’s call-in number is 1-724-444-7444 and the extension is 24868# – make sure to press the # key as that is part of the extension number.  The show is a great way to get a free reading from one of the psychics or energy workers from the Soul’s Journey Lightworker site.

I think anyone calling in will be more than pleased with their experience on the show. I hope you have a chance to call in, or if not, to listen to us. You can listen to Soul’s Journey Radio here – the radio player starts automatically, so if you are at work and just want to peruse, you might want to hit the mute button first. You can then go to the radio player, hover over it and stop it from playing.  The player is on the right side of the screen after your scoll down a bit.

I hope to hear from you tonight!

Saulé Meditation

While many people see deities as falling under a Solar God / Lunar Goddess dichotomy, there are multiple mythologies in which the Sun is feminine. If you wish to worship a sun deity and bring solar energy into your life, but also prefer worshipping goddesses to gods, you may be interested in Saulé.

Saulé is a Latvian solar goddess who rides her golden chariot across the sky every day before bathing her horses in the sea each evening and then retiring to her castle behind the silver gates at the very end of the great waters. She is understood to be motherly and incredibly powerful. She is the warmth of the sun, the giver of light and of life. A protective deity as well, Saulé can be meditated upon if you wish to suffuse yourself with her positivity and feminine solar energies.

Get into a comfortable position and begin the meditation by focusing upon your breathing. You want to take slow, even, steady breaths until you feel yourself relax into a state of peaceful ease.

Once you are relaxed and breathing deeply and evenly, you should close your eyes and focus your awareness on the darkness. Do not see anything but the blank, black void in front of you.

Then imagine a small golden dot in the distance, growing larger as it draws nearer to you. As it comes closer, it illumines your surroundings and you find yourself in whatever natural setting will bring you the most comfort and pleasure, perhaps a clearing in a forest or a beautiful garden. The golden orb continues to approach, bringing its light and warmth. The heat and the brilliance are comforting, and not overwhelming.

When the orb is close enough, you are able to distinguish in the great shining light the form of a woman in a horse-drawn chariot. She is Saulé, the sun. Her chariot draws near and alights on the ground nearby where you are seated. She gracefully climbs from her chariot and comes to you. You greet one another as she sits before you.

Now is the time when you may speak with Saulé, ask her for guidance or blessings. Allow your imagination to take hold and allow as much time to elapse as you need in order to commune with this goddess.

When you and Saulé have finished conversing, you say your farewells and she returns to her chariot. Her horses carry her back into the sky and she leaves you, continuing along her path and flying in the opposite direction from whence she came. You may turn your head to watch her orb disappear into the distance.

As the light fades with her passage and the dark returns, you are happy in the knowledge that you may come to this place and await her return whenever you feel the need to see Saulé again. When finally you are again surrounded by perfect darkness, you bring your awareness back to your physical body. Take your time in doing so; focus once more on your breathing to help you return to your present surroundings. When you are ready, open your eyes.

You may find that for meditations like this to be most effective, you will want to write down your experiences. Record what you saw, how the goddess appeared to you, and what words of wisdom she had to share. That way, you can consult the message that you got in the meditation later if you feel the need to reexamine the details for further interpretation.

Trancing the Year: Yule

 

**A note to readers: the following blog series is a documentation of my experiences of a more ecstatic experiencing of the Wheel of the Year. I kicked of this journey  during Yule (the Winter solstice) on the longest night of the year.

I have been celebrating each turn of the wheel in my own particular fashion over the last twenty years. Sometimes, I would do and attend a full-on ritual with tons of ceremony and flair.  Generally, I would celebrate quietly at home or outside somewhere quiet and devoid of all human presence  except my own.  Other times, I would double dip and do both. This definitely kept me in touch with the energetic changes of the year and kept my dancing card full. However, this year, I decided to do trance journey work with each of Sabbats and to see where that brought me.  My rationale was to experience the changing seasons to their fullest and to reinvigorate my own practices.

I decided to begin on the darkest night of the year, Yule. The main reason that I picked Yule was that I  believed that there lies within Yule the first sparks of the coming spring and the beginning of the light part of the year as the days grow longer minute by minute. Due to the simple fact that I am very much a solar person (as friends and family will cheerfully agree,” this return of the sun (no matter how small) is very important to me and called for a working that emphasized rejuvenation and joy.

As I sat down and began to brainstorm, I looked down at the notes that I had made for the ritual plans that I had set out for my coven’s blue moon celebration for New Years Eve. I was planning on doing group work with the ancient Egyptian Goddess, Hathor. I felt that familiar click in my brain and a plan began to gel. Hathor and Ra! Who else would be more more appropriate for my maiden voyage of my year of trance work? I sat down and wrote out a list of some of the best resources to use to refresh my memory of the mythologies of Hathor and Ra. Thus, my journey began.

Luckily, my nerddom paid off because I had a vast array of books and online archival resources. I rediscovered and reread beautiful hymns and stories that I hadn’t come across in years. I found online stashes of Hathor and Ra in ancient Egyptian temple art and royal tombs. I was awestruck by the grace and beauty of these images. In a world of reality t.v., these images and hymns were like true honey wine for the soul.

However, I had to bring myself back to the present and to focus on the work at hand. I went to my stash of incenses and resins and found my bag of frankincense. The smell and the smoke from this resin are both truly divine and awesome for journey and trancework. I checked through my herbs and supplies on hand to make sure that everything was good to go and sat down to think about what I wanted to accomplish with this work. Then, I sat down to a round of divination to get further insight on what I needed to focus on.

The days passed quickly over the course of two weeks as the holiday baking frenzy at one my jobs reached its zenith. My coven had gathered together the day before Yule to celebrate and to throw a baby shower for an expecting coven mate. The evening of Yule itself was going to be a private affair.  That evening, after work, I walked home in the cold twilight enjoying the rustle of the bare trees and evergreens. The light in the sky was quickly fading to a soft lavender and night was quickly claiming everything. Even the noise in the streets seemed to be muted. Slowly, I made my way home. I was too enthralled with the beautiful twilight to hurray home. Therefore, it was fully dark as I made my way up the stairs to my cozy and warm apartment.

I began to make my preparations by casting the energies and overall craziness of the day with a ritual bath and meditation. Then, I began to prepare the ritual space by setting up and cleansing the space itself. The set up was simple and, as I began to light the charcoal in the incense burner, I felt a sense of warmth and calm begin to come over me. The charcoal began to crackle and snap. Soon, it would begin to give a soft red glow on its bed of sand. I turned off the lights and began to light the candles. Soon, the room was filled with a soft light and the vibrant flicker of flames framing my altar area. I dropped a couple of grains of the resin on the charcoal and fragrant smoke began to fill the room. I deeply inhaled the heady aroma and began to ground and center myself. I sat down within the circle with my sistrum in hand and began my journey.

With a flick of my wrist, the sistrum began to rattle. I placed more resin on the burning charcoal as my sistrum found its rhythm. I tend to trance out fairly quickly and with each breath began to go deeper. “Sa Sekhem Sahu, ” I began to chant. Soon, the energy of the entire room had changed. The outside world would begin to fall away until there was only me and the Divine.

For this journey, I had set the intention to journey with Hathor and Ra on their solar barge through the Duat. I had hoped to align myself more to the cycles of the Sun while casting off the debris of the old year. Then, I would be recharged and ready to face the challenges of the new year. I had also hoped to receive Divine messages and insight into what would my work be for the upcoming year. These were my plans but the night would become so much more.

Every cell within my body felt as if it was infused with a golden energy and I felt the illusion of my separateness with the universe give way. I felt two very powerful presences encircle me. The experience was to the point of being overpowering. The beat of my heart slowed and seemed to reverberate within the body of light that I had become enmeshed in.  A low hum began to fill my ears and my skull seemed to vibrate like a harp string. The rattle of the sistrum seemed to send off sparks of light as my mind and spirit began to fill with images and with an energy that was wholly indescribable.  I was faced with the image of the surface and the heart of our own Sun. I was watching the molecules circle and dance like the daily dance of Hathor and Ra. Each solar flare filled me with joy and burned away what was no longer serving my highest good. Pure solar energy recharged me as I watched how the energy of the Sun guides and moves each soul on the earthly plane of existence. I received many messages during that journey on the darkest night of the year. However, the message that I remember most is that the dance continues and our soul’s continue their journeys with the minds and cycles of the Gods. Divine sparks come away refreshed and renewed. Other Divine sparks return again for all time and still the light dances. May your souls be renewed with each turn of the Wheel.

Soul’s Journey Radio

My favorite site to read tarot is Soul’s Journey – there is a permanent link to the right under links. The people there are warm and friendly, and they made me feel welcome when I started working for them. I’ve worked on sites like Keen or Liveperson, but there, a few of the other people working the site see you as competition to be crushed. Not very nice, really, and I’ve heard horror stories of soul crushing experiences. However, Soul’s Journey is really full of kind, compassionate, and incredibly talented people.

One of the new things I am doing with Soul’s Journey is a radio show on Sundays. Every Sunday, at 8:00 p.m. CST (9:00 p.m. EST) I host a show called the SJLightworker hour. I interview a different person for the Soul’s Journey site. It is really fun, and I am getting to know the people who make Soul’s Journey such a positive and uplifting place to work. The other fun thing about this show is that it is a call-in show. If you want to have someone read for you, just call-in during the show. Last week we had the amazing Gary Greene on the show and this week we have the lovely Rhoda J.

While I am a tarot reader, the site has psychics, energy workers, and a vast array of talented people who use various modalities to help you along your path.

The show’s call-in number is 1-724-444-7444 and the extension is 24868# – make sure to press the # key as that is part of the extension number.

I think anyone calling in will be more than pleased with their experience on the show. I hope you have a chance to call in, or if not, to listen to us. You can listen to Soul’s Journey Radio here – the radio player starts automatically, so if you are at work and just want to peruse, you might want to hit the mute button first. You can then go to the radio player, hover over it and stop it from playing.

I hope to hear from you tonight!

The Modern American Wheel of the Year – Part 2 Yule

The next holiday in the Wheel of the Year is Yule, which, in America, translates into the Christmas / Hanukkah / Kwanzaa / Festivus / etc. season. Whichever holiday is being celebrated at this time of year, it celebrates light and the birth of the Sun (son). Even the least religious Americans celebrate at Yule. We exchange presents, feast and play to get us through the long nights and remind us that even though the weather might be bleak, the light will return.

Winter is very cold and very dark. Seasonal Affective Disorder can affect many Americans, especially those at higher latitudes. Even those without SAD can feel sluggish and a bit melancholy during the grey days and early nights. The sun’s return is definitely an occasion to celebrate, and we get our first confirmation that the winter cannot last forever. On Imbolc, we get another sign of the impending season and the strengthening light, but that’s the topic for next week.

Building a Fairy House

I know it may sound crazy to some people, but I believe in fairies.  I place a high virtue on giving the imagination a freer rein than most adults feel comfortable giving it, and my imagination is inflamed by all things fay.  Yes, I know it sounds crazy, but I believe, and I know that there are other people who do too.

I write this for you, if you believe in fairies, if you see them and talk to them, if you love the stories they tell you, if you hear their little giggles and find things in places where you know you didn’t leave them, if you laugh along with them in their pranks because you delight in their mischief as much as their help, if just being around them makes you happy when you’ve been feeling down.

Some years ago, during the summer between high school and college, I built a fairy house in my parent’s front yard.  It really did take an entire summer to finish.  I used only natural materials to make it.  I gathered sticks and twigs to use as the wood of the house; I only foraged for what had already fallen from trees, deciding against cutting any trees, given the nature of my project (and the nature of fairies).  I also collected a wealth of tiny pebbles, all of which were already tumbled into smoothness by the elements.  They were quite pretty, in various shades of pinks, yellows, oranges, whites, and off-whites.

With the wood, I crafted the structure of a little cottage, made the foundation, walls, and roof.  I left spaces for windows and doors, which I lined with some of the pebbles.  With the remaining stones, I made a decent-sized fireplace and working chimney.  For adhesive, I used environmentally-safe cement.  I made some little furniture for the inside of the cottage and even did a bit of landscaping outside to make the place more welcoming.

It was an incredible amount of work, truth be told.  This project consumed my free time, perhaps even blossomed into a bit of an obsession.  I spent countless hours gathering the materials I would need, planning the dimensions of the little house I wanted to build, trimming the twigs I had collected into the proper sizes, and fitting everything together.  I strived for nothing short of perfection.  If I didn’t like the way some part of it looked, I would dismantle and start that part again.  Finally, at the very end of the summer, I completed the little cottage.

I like to think that I caught the fairies’ attention when I started to build, and that their interest grew as they watched me work on it.  As I constructed the little cottage in my parents’ yard, I imagined the little people peering at me through the leaves in the trees and from behind the flowers.  To this day, I continue to feel a strong connection to fairies, and I continue to receive little outward signs and an inner, intuitive sense of relationship and communion with those nature spirits.  I do believe that putting so much care and attention into doing something for them, making something for them, went a long way.  I think they appreciated the effort—that, and the little offerings I continue to make to the fairies no matter where I am living.

I no longer reside in my parents’ house.  Moving away is an expected part of growing up.  I suppose that ceasing to believe in fairies is, for many people, another traditionally expected part of growing up.  It’s not part of it for me.  I can’t exactly tell you why I like fairies, or why they like me.  It’s beyond what I can put into words, I’m afraid.  I do believe that building the fairy house and giving them offerings cemented the bond for us, but even before that, they were in my life.  Maybe with fairies, you either get them or you don’t, I don’t know.

I don’t know if you can get the fairies’ attention if they’re not already interested in you, and I don’t even know that it would be advisable to try.  Given their temperaments, it seems more likely that fairies pick out the people they want to work (or play) with, than that people can just up and decide to make contact with fairies.  If you don’t sense any deep connection with fairies and you’re trying to seek them out anyway, odds are you’re doing it just out of curiosity, and fairies don’t like to be treated like curiosities; they find it rude.  Fairies have their own set of manners, and you want to be careful not to offend.

If you have a sense of them coming around you, contacting you, or inviting your attention, and if you think that you could enjoy a relationship with the fairies, I encourage you to cultivate it.  If you don’t feel a genuine, perhaps even inexplicable affinity for them, however, I wouldn’t encourage you to resort to attempting to lure them.

All that being said, I do want to emphasize:  I don’t think that communion with the fairies is something very rare or extraordinary.  I don’t mean to make it out to be something grand, available only to a select few, and I don’t think that it makes you “special” or “superior” or anything like that.  I just don’t want anybody to get discouraged if they try to make contact and it doesn’t work out for them.  Inevitably, not everyone will be able to relate to or commune with fairies.  All beings have different personalities and unique energies, and sometimes it’s just a matter of compatibility.

In that way, making friends with the fairies is probably a lot like making friends with anybody.  It takes an affinity of spirit, a mutual sense of compatibility.  I have no doubt that there are many, many folks out there who have an affinity of the sort I am talking about, nor do I doubt that those without such an affinity don’t really miss it.  The fairies aren’t for everybody.  If you can’t seem to make any sort of contact with these nature spirits, it just means that you have an affinity for something else, and when you find whatever that is, you’ll find it as gratifying as we fairy lovers find our relationship with the fay.

Yes, friendship with the fairies is really gratifying.  I won’t extol the virtues of it here, in part because it’s wonderful to discover for yourself.  I wanted to write this post just to say that, for those of you who sometimes feel like the fairies are trying to get your attention, if you want to pursue friendship with the fairies, I have some advice for what you can do:

-First of all, you can talk out loud to them, particularly when you have a sense that they are around.  They often come around when I work outside, for instance, because they are interested in what I’m doing.  Certain activities are more interesting to them than others, but they generally have a very healthy inquisitiveness.  If you have something worth saying, they’ll like to listen and find things out.

-If you dream about them, keep a journal of it, and try to talk to them there too (lucid dreamers may have an easier go of this).

-Find out all you can about them.  Read about them, express an interest in them.  Personally, I enjoy both library research and field research, but you may like one more than the other.  It’s true, they can be resentful of being treated like curiosities.  I find that when people come at it from the right attitude though, they are flattered when people want to know more about them.

-Accept them for what they are.  They’re not your little helpers to do your bidding.  They’ll do you favors from time to time, sure.  But don’t get it in your mind that they’re your servants.  By and large, you’d be better off considering them your eccentric friends.

-Delight in what makes them what they are—both their “good” and “bad” qualities, if you can.  (Disclaimer:  There is a difference between real fairies and the cartoon depictions we’ve all seen of pretty, chubby little toddlers with butterfly wings and winsome dimples.  I’m talking about real fairies here, and it’s only fair to warn that some fairies are really quite wicked.  I accept that without reserve or judgment.  Even though I personally adhere to a decent standard of human morality, I don’t expect non-humans to do so.  I don’t pretend to always understand fairy morality, being human myself, but I don’t take it upon myself to judge.  Some people are less comfortable with fairy’s moral standards, and you must decide for yourself what you are comfortable with.)

-Leave them offerings.  They love sweets, and many of them won’t say no to tobacco or alcohol either.

-And, finally, if you’ve been doing all this for quite some time, cultivating a relationship with the fairies, and you would like to create a dwelling that serves as a home base for them and that also lets them know you want to share your space with them, build a little house or cottage for them.

Keep in mind, though, that with every step you make towards strengthening your bond to the fairies, you are taking on a responsibility.  After a certain point, you are making a commitment to them.  They will interpret things like fairy houses as an offer of lasting friendship.  Once you have made such an offer, it would be a grievous offense to turn your back on the fairies, to ignore them or end the friendship.

I would advise you not to create a fairy house I describe if the fairies for you are only a passing interest. I don’t think that it would be wrong to talk to them and leave them offerings if you only plan on working with them for a finite period; not all relationships are lasting relationships, and not all friendships have to be eternal to have meaning.  Just like with some people, some nature spirits may come into your life to fulfill a purpose, and once that purpose is fulfilled, all parties can move on quite well.

More than likely, after a certain point of communing with fairies, you will know whether this is for you a lasting bond.  If you know that it is a lasting bond for you, this is the point at which you can feel comfortable making more serious offerings, like a house or like pledges of eternal friendship.  I did so happily, several summers ago, and even though I have since moved away from my parents’ house, the fairies still know that they can visit there.

I live in an apartment currently, and in lieu of a house I have a small fairy door that rests against the baseboards next to the entrance, and the fairies know that they are welcome to come and go freely.  One day (after I’ve finished with graduate school and decided where I want to move next) I want to get a house of my own–one that has a nice, beautiful yard with trees and flowers.  When that day comes, I will of course be building a new fairy house there.

It is a delight to work on a project like a fairy house, and the happiness I got out of doing it the first time was, I do believe, matched by that of the fairies who knew I had done it for them.  I have no doubt that it will be the same the next time I have opportunity and cause to build a fairy house.  I have no doubt, too, that any other people who feel moved to do so will derive equal pleasure from building fairy houses in their own yards.

Home Cleansings and Blessings

Since home is where the heart is it behooves us to make sure that our homes are cleansed and blessed on a regular basis. Why? Because all of us have the capacity for good energy and bad energy. A bad day can be brought home with us and muck up the energy of our home. Have you ever been having a really great day and then someone came in who was angry or in a temper? The energy of the home takes a nosedive more often than not. Even after the bad mood has passed this unhealthy energy sticks around, just as the positive energy sticks around. Therefore it is a good idea to make sure that the house is cleansed and blessed frequently. There are many ways to accomplish this, but as with most spells, the more you put into it, the more you get out of it.

The first step is to actually physically clean your house. This is something that many of us put off (I know I do!) but really helps quite a bit. By physically cleaning your house you are doing a great deal to make the energy in the home much healthier and brighter. Also, the feeling of accomplishment after cleaning the home is a great way to raise energy for a house cleansing and blessing. If you are going to take the time to magically cleanse and bless your home, you should also take the time to physically cleanse your home as well. The magical and the physical work best together.

Floor Washes – A lot can be said about a good floor wash. Washing your floor clears up negativity and often has the house smelling great. The extra added bonus is that in order to wash your floor, you have to pick up the clutter that accumulates. Clutter is a magnet for unhealthy energy. Floor washes can be made to bring in luck, love, money, health, happiness, protection, cleansing or anything else your heart desires. You can make your own floor wash by adding essential oils or herbs to your regular floor cleanser. If adding essential oils, you might want to try out what different oils smell like when combined together and with your cleanser before washing your whole house in a particular scent. Essential oils are easy to use because you only need to add a few drops of each oil to your bucket.

If adding herbs, I generally choose multiples of three, 3, 6 or 9 being the most common, but any number would work. I will boil the herbs to make a tea and then strain out the herbs using a coffee filter or strainer. I will add a portion of the tea mixture to the bucket I am using on the floors and then a portion for a spray bottle. Then I will mop the floors, or scrub them, depending on my mood. In hoodoo, you scrub the floors on your hands and knees, which I will do sometimes, but due to a twitchy back and angry knees, I generally prefer to mop. After mopping I will then using the spray bottle to mist over the areas, such as carpets or rugs or furniture that I could not clean with a mop.

Many shops, such as Lucky Mojo or in my area, The Country Goddess, have floor washes in stock that you can purchase and use. Lucky Mojo’s Chinese wash smells great and is good for clearing your house of negativity.

I am fairly haphazard about what herbs I use, and end up relying on what I have on hand. I will occasionally seek out specific herbs for specific purposes, but usually rely on the herbs I use in cooking. I recommend getting a good book on herbs and their correspondences, such as Cunningham’s Encyclopedia of Magickal Herbs. That way you can choose from a long list of herbs based from what you have at hand.

For a Loving Home – Wash and Spray

  1. Boil a large pot of water. You can use tap water or you can use rain water if you prefer. Soapbox moment: Since we try to practice stewardship to the earth, you may want to avoid using multiple small bottles of spring water as the plastic from these small bottles really does harm the planet. If you feel you must use spring water for this and do not have access to a spring, try to buy a large jug of water so that you have plenty of water and not plenty of plastic bottles.
  2. You will want to charge the herbs with your intention. A good way to do this is hold the herbs in your hands and flow energy, in this case loving energy, into each herb. Visualize your hands with a bright light filling and flowing through them and powering the herbs. Flow energy into the spice/herb until it feels ready to you. If you forgot this step, you can also flow energy into the entire mixture by placing your hands over the pot (not while it is boiling!) and flowing energy into the entire mixture.
  3. Mix in a tablespoon each of cinnamon, basil, and lavender (any combination of herbs for love and harmony will work well, I like basil and lavender for the additional good luck properties and cinnamon for the smell) and let steep in water for at around 5-10 minutes to make a tea.
  4. Drain water through a sieve or coffee filter to remove herbs.
  5. Add tea to a spray bottle and/or the bucket you are using to clean the floors.

The above recipe can be used for anything you would like to bless your house with as long your intention and the herbs correspond. My favorites for this are protection, luck, peace and harmony. Sometimes I want to infuse my house with motivation, and then I generally use bay leaves with essential oils for lemon, orange or grapefruit. The citrus really makes me want to move. It is important to experiment and find what works best for you.

I have a friend who will boil herbs in a pot throughout the day –basically steps 1 through 3 – because the steam infuses the house with the smell and properties of the herbs. It is wonderful to come home to a fantastic smelling house. I will say that this approach would work for me really well in the winter when it is dry, but in the summer my house is very humid, so I try not to add to the humidity. However, you can use this method for a quick house cleansing when you are busy doing other things. Sometimes our time is short, so shortcuts help.

Incense – Just burning incense in your house can really help lift spirits and bless and cleanse. The most common house cleansing is to get a wrap of dried sage and then to go through the house clearing the energy with the sage. The best approach is to start at your front door, and walk the perimeter of your house clearing the energy with the sage bundle and flow energy through your hands. The sage clears away negativity and the energy you flow – both through your free hand and the sage bundle – helps replace negative energy with your energy. Some people like to chant as they do this to help with focus. Such as “I bless you and clear you, I bless you and clear you…” If you are following the sage up with holy water, you can say “I bless and clear this space with fire and air” or “Air and fire cleanses and blesses…” Really whatever you like.

Holy Water – There are many different takes on holy water, but what I like is the simple water with sea salt. Mix together until salt has dissolved completely in the water. As with the herbs, a little goes a long way so a tablespoon should be plenty. Charge the water with cleansing properties by holding your hands over the water and flowing energy into the water. You may even ask the Goddess to help you charge the water, if that feels comfortable to you. I used to leave the water in a chalice and kind of sprinkle the water throughout my home, but have found that this leaves salt water droplets everywhere. Instead, I now use a spray bottle that will mist the solution through the home. It works better for me, but as with all things, find what works best for you.

If you are doing a thorough house cleansing, I would use sage as well as holy water. As you walk through the house, starting and finishing at the front door, use the sage to clear away unpleasant energy. I use my arms and hands as a kind of energetic broom to sweep away the negative energy as I go. Then when I finish at the front door, I open the door and push the unpleasant energy outside. I’m lucky enough to have two big trees in front of my house and I usually take this energy and give it to the ground in front of the trees. Energy that I find unpleasant becomes neutralized in the ground and helps the trees. Then go through the house with holy water doing the same as I did with the sage, including shooing the unpleasant energy out the front door and grounding it in the earth.

After you have finished cleansing your house with Air and Fire (the sage or incense) and Earth and Water (the salt and water), you can then place protective wards or shields around your home. There are many, many ways to accomplish this, from the Lesser Banishing Ritual of the Pentagram to simply visualizing your home as surrounded in a dome of protective light. I prefer to place specific wards around my home, while my husband uses a protective energy dome around the home.

Thread Bottle – I forgot where I first read about a thread bottle, but I do know that spell this was found in a book somewhere. The idea is a bottle full of odds and ends of thread that tangle up anyone who tries to do you harm. My husband loves this particular spell as he hates to throw anything away. Because we add to it any time we sew or knit or just have an odd piece of string or thread or yarn from somewhere, which means that something that might have been thrown out is used to help keep our home safe. You can use any kind of glass bottle you like. We first had a very pretty bottle I purchased from Hobby Lobby for this purpose, but when this bottle broke, my husband just switched to using an empty bottle of vodka we were getting ready to recycle. He was pleased as punch to be able to reuse the vodka bottle for something and we just transferred the thread bits from one container to another. Part of the great thing about this spell is that everyone in the house can contribute their energy to it, as they add bits of loose thread to the bottle.

Witch’s Ball – This is a very simple little ward you can place around your house. Most of the ones I have seen are terribly expensive, hand-blown glass affairs that I could never afford. Therefore, I never really thought much about getting one. I am also rough on delicate objects, so a pretty glass thing seemed like asking for trouble. Our then High Priestess, who is terribly crafty in all of the ways that I am not, said that you could use Christmas tree ornaments. The local hobby shop sells, year round, clear glass bulb ornaments, usually for under $5 for a set of them.

These are the ornaments in two different sizes, filled with powder eggshells, calendula and lavender.

You can then place herbs inside of the ornaments and hang them around your house. Our hobby shop sells them in a variety of sizes from small to extremely large. Our crafty HP said that you can also paint them different colors to correspond to the elements, or use food coloring and Elmer’s glue to make the bulbs different colors. I tried the food coloring with Elmer’s glue, but I apparently go crazy with food coloring and used too much so it didn’t turn out well. It was interesting in a Look at That Gloppy Mess That Won’t Dry kind of way, but not very useful. I think a lighter touch is needed if you go the Elmer’s glue route.

This is a small ornament with a post-it note used as a funnel.

I placed protective herbs inside my ornaments and then put them up in the four quarters. One of the nice things about these types of wards is that they are an excellent indicator of when someone is wishing you ill. When your wards explode inexplicably, that is a major indicator of bad news! We had one just destruct without anyone being near it, and from there we went on to discover that someone was not too pleased with us. When that happens, you just replace the ward and move on, while maybe doubling up on the protection detail.

Witch’s Bottle – I’ve never made one of these myself, but hear that they are really affective. Basically, you take a bottle, like a mason jar, and you place sharp pointy things inside it. If they are rusty and twisted, then that is good too. I’ve heard very specific instructions for this and very loose instructions for this. Basically, you want nails, razor blades, staples, tacks, screws and other implements of that nature in the bottle. In addition, you then add your own urine to the bottle. You bury this bottle on your property and it protects you from any harm thrown your way. Some say you should include a parchment paper with your name on it, or that you should smear it with menstrual blood or semen, but the version I’ve heard most is rusty, sharp things, urine, then bury it. Some people say bury it on a full moon, others say the dark of the moon.

Wards – Wards can be placed over doors and windows. A ward is very simple and consists of nothing more than your energy. Using an athame, wand, or your finger, draw banishing pentacle over the door or window. Visualize protective, blue white light drawing the banishing pentagram and sealing your door or window. Do this to all of the openings in your house. Some people take protection oil and physically draw the circle on the door or window, which is a way to do it that works well, but for me, I just don’t like having oil on my windows so I visualize instead. Do what works best for you.

Braids – One of the earliest spells of blessing I performed was one for a good marriage. I took three different colored ribbons, choosing the colors to correspond with what I wanted to bless my marriage with. Then I knotted the three ribbons together on one end and braided them together while chanting and flowing energy into the spell. The chant I used was merely what each color represented, “Peace, love, happiness”. Once the ribbons were braided together, I then knotted the other end of the ribbons and tied the two ends together forming a circle. As ribbons braided together are relatively thin, you could double up the magic on your home by hanging up a witch ball with the braided ribbon. Protection and blessing working together.

Another use for these braided ribbons is to place them over the tops of the windows and doorways in your home. If I am doing that with the braids, I will often chant more specifically, such as “Let only friends pass through this door” or “Goddess bless and protect all who enter” or something of that nature. After the braid is completed, it can be added to the top of the window or doorway.

Problem Areas

A lot of the above information focuses on doorways and windows mainly because those are the entryways into our home. When cleansing an area or protecting an area, you want to pay special attention to those areas where energy can come in and set up camp. By warding the doorways and windows, you are keeping unwanted energy out.

Another problem area is corners. When going through my house to cleanse, the ceiling corners often have the biggest buildup of energy. It is a good practice to clear the energy out when you can, as you don’t want it hanging around.

Clutter is area where energy can collect. Clutter is something that seems to follow me around, but when I do a cleansing, if I can’t clean the clutter, I will make sure to spend extra time cleansing it and clearing it of unpleasant energy.

There are many different ways to cleanse, bless, and protect your home. The above is just a list of simple but effective things you can do to start out. I recommend to anyone practicing magic cleansing and blessing your home much as you would your ritual tools. One of the most effective protections out there is the goddesses and gods, so don’t forget to ask them for their blessings and protection of your home. These cleansings and blessings should be done on a regular basis, at least once a month if not once a week, and ALWAYS before you move into a new place. Magical hygiene is like regular hygiene – the more often you do it, the cleaner and clearer you are.

As a side note, you should cleanse and bless any area you are working magic in, praying in or doing a ritual in before each magical act but especially before ritual.

Cheers!

Beginner Book Recommendations

There are a lot of great pagan books out there – too many in fact.  Sometimes I feel as if there is a sea of pagan books to choose from – so many it is overwhelming.  However, quantity does not mean quality.  Through the coming months, I am going to start reviewing books on the blog, but before I get to that, I would like to point out some of my top favorite books on paganism.  Hopefully, some of the other writers here can add what books they really enjoy.

  1. Spiral Dance by Starhawk – This book holds a special place in my heart as it was the first book I ever read on paganism.  It was my introduction to paganism and it really helped me on my way.  This is a great book for the beginning student as well as for those who have been practicing for years.  It is dense reading, though, but well worth the read.
  2. Wicca: Guide for the Solitary Practitioner & Living Wicca by Scott Cunningham – If Spiral Dance was the book that let me know I wanted to be pagan, Scott Cunningham’s books are the ones that let me know how to do it.  Scott Cunningham made Wicca accessible to the masses and his easy, conversational tone makes reading his books easy and engaging.  These two books allowed me to start practicing my paganism long before I found a coven or learned the proper pronunciation of athame or Samhain.
  3. To Ride a Magick Broomstick by Silver Ravenwolf – I know, I know.  She spells magic with a “k” and she made a business out of packaging her books to “Craft”-spawn, but that doesn’t make her books any less helpful, or full of decent information.  This book is a great book for the beginner and I still reference it even though it has been 15 years or more since I was a beginner.  I do have some complaints about Ravenwolf, but the quality of this book and the other two books in this series, To Stir a Magick Cauldron and To Light a Sacred Flame, not to mention her huge book on being a solitary practitioner, are simply fantastic.  Yes, her tone can be condescending, but when you are starting out, this comes across more motherly than condescending.
  4. Utterly Wicked by Dorothy Morrison – This book was a fun and fast read with tons of great information.  Wicca may be something people get into for peace and enlightenment, but there are always those assholes that spoil it for the rest.  This book gives you a great deal of information on how to deal with the asshole contingent.  Another great one with this topic is Protection and Reversal Magick by Jason Miller.  It is a great read with tons of useful information.
  5. Witch School First Degree – Lessons in the Correllian Tradition – Yes, I know that Han Solo is Correllian.  However, this book has some of the best exercises for the beginning witch I’ve ever seen in any book anywhere.  The information here on everything from Gods and Goddesses to spells and meditations is fantastic.  This book has a philosophy I agree with and speaks to a larger understanding of not only Wicca as a religion, but practitioners as those who actually do something. The only drawback of this book is the incorrect usage of the word symbology over and over again (“Sssssymbolism.  I believe the word you are looking for is ssssymbolism”)coupled with some poor editing and occasional spelling errors.  I’ve got a degree in English so these mistakes make books seem unprofessional to me, but I’ve been told I’m nitpicky (I like to think of myself as accurate).  This happens in all of the Correllian degree texts and is annoying to the point of madness, however, the spelling doesn’t take away from some truly useful and mind expanding exercises, plus sound philosophy.
  6. Covencraft by Amber K – If you are in a coven, looking to join a coven or want to start a coven, this is the book for you.  This book has a wealth of information that every single person who is part of a coven should read and be cognizant of.  I’ve read many books on covens, but this one is the most complete and comprehensive book there is.  It includes stages of a coven, personalities to watch out for, sample of coven rules, sample of an application to get status as a church, plus a host of extremely valuable information in addition to these examples.
  7. The Goddess Guide: Exploring the Attributes and Correspondences of the Divine Feminine by Priestess Brandi Auset – This book has merely a line or two about each goddess listed, but what you really need the book for is the listing of correspondences in the back of the book.  They holidays are broken down and given a listing of appropriate goddesses to call, plus there are lists for what goddess suits what purpose best and so on.  As one would hope that you do more research on goddesses individually, this is a great place to start.
  8. In addition to the above books, I also recommend anything by Patricia Telesco, Zsuzsanna Budapest, Scott Cunningham (especially his book on herbs), Starhawk, Dorothy Morrison or Christopher Penczak.

Astrology and Tarot – in no particular order, although 1 and 4 are Must-Have Books

  1. The Only Astrology Book You’ll Ever Need by Joanna Martine Woolfolk – This is a comprehensive guide to astrology and it truly does have everything in it you need to know, written in an easy to understand manner.  This book also includes a disc that you can use to make not only your own birth chart via computer, but the birth chart of anyone you know who wants one.
  2. Sun Sign, Moon Sign by Charles Harvey – When reading about yourself in a horoscope do you ever stop and think that it doesn’t totally fit you?  That is because you are only getting half of your personality, the sun sign.  The moon sign is equally important and therefore, this book is a must read!
  3. Sextrology: The Astrology of Sex and the Sexes by Starsky and Cox – This book gives an exhaustive overview of each sign based on gender.  While Linda Goodman did so as well, this book give a more in depth and what I would call a more accurate view of each sign with pages upon pages of explanation.  This is also a pretty fun read and I love the title.
  4. Tarot Made Easy by Nancy Garen – This is simply the best tarot book I’ve read and I have referenced it so much that I actually bought another one as the first fell apart.  This book has a great introduction but the meat of the book is each tarot card broken down for its meanings into over 30 different categories such as work, friends, loved ones, desires, etc.  When I am stumped on a reading this is the book I break out.  A must have for any tarot reader.

These books are for the beginner – there is a whole different set of books I’d recommend to someone who has been on the path for a while.

Also, the books are linked to their page on Amazon, not because Stellaluna gets money from Amazon (we don’t) but because this is where I like to go to read reviews and think about books I’d like to purchase.

The Modern American Wheel of the Year Part 1 Samhain

The Modern American Wheel of the Year

Part 1

American holidays are secular.  Even those that are arguably “Christian holidays” have lost much of their Christian meaning, much to the chagrin of those who spend their time each year exhorting us to “remember the reason for the season.”  These holidays do not belong to only one religion; they belong to everyone.  Yet it is easy to see the Wheel of the Year, the eight sacred holidays of the neo-pagan religions, echoed in our American celebrations.

The Wheel of the Year begins at Samhain, the final harvest and the day when the veil between worlds is thinnest.  It is quite easy to spot Sahmain’s corresponding American holiday.  Halloween has marked this sacred night for centuries.  Collecting candy, dressing up, and getting frightened by the monsters that every child knows for certain are lurking just around the corner, are all part of our autumn routine.  The weather gets colder, and we begin to reflect upon the past year as the days grow ever shorter.  Halloween reminds us that winter is almost upon us, the new “holiday season” is starting, and the year is coming to a close.

Fall has always been a season of reflection and preparation for winter.  Whether it is called Samhain or Halloween, the day is used to reflect upon those who have died and to celebrate the coming of the shadow-time, the dark part of the year.  At Halloween, shadows are confronted and celebrated with ghost stories and masks.  Society faces its fears on Halloween, and with luck, gains valuable insight and understanding.

Stay tuned for Part 2 of this continuing series, The Modern American Wheel of the Year.  Next up: Yule.

~Perdi